No FIL issues yet today.  I'm thankful for that.  Yesterday MIL calls right before I head out the door in a panic because FIL has gone up to the cemetery and got her car stuck again and they have to be at the cardiogist in less than 20 min.  Rounded up my bro  (Man he is a good guy...almost makes me feel bad for making him cry when he was little...) and he got them another car and we all made it to appointments (I had to meet the durabilt guy at 2) if not alittle bit worse for wear.  Not bad as far as FIL incidents go today.  I'm reteaching myself to play guitar with a pick.  It's hard because I am retraining my fingers.  Bad enough I'm left handed playing right... good thing I love a challenge
UPDATE:  I've been successful with the straightner and have done my newdo correctly for several days.  And they say you can't teach an old dog new tricks?