Went with GS to see her Mom today.  The trip was good for us.  Breakfast on the run was Coffee at McDonalds and Eclairs from P & C.   She and I are both going through "family" issues at the moment.  (With the size of our families combined...everyday IS a family moment.)   A is planning what we believe may be a "secret" visit.  GS wonders of the reason behind Ark's pending homecoming.   Then there is my situation with R  & his POA. <sigh>  This was a man the family trusted.  For the record... I have never trusted him.    Seems now I know why.  Trust your gut instincts!!!  GS:  Thank you so much for immediately sensing my need to vent and getting us IM'ing.  It helped me work through the anger of the situation and find perspective.  Te amo mi amiga intima.